I have 3.
Do you think a man turning 51 would be ready to “have better things to do” on Saturday night than go out with his buddies? How do they even have anything in common? The buddies are not fathers, most not husbands and all make lousy financial decisions.
With 2 “small” children I barely have time to have a 15 minute phone call with girlfriends. But husband has made a virtual fence around Saturday nights with the guys.
I’m waiting for some evolution…