I made a mistake. I thought his spending his interests with everyone was stopping us from having shared lives, shared interests. So I told him how upsetting it was that he spent so much time with his friends, leaving me home alone. I really thought the potential for our relationship was much deeper than it is. This is where I went wrong.
Now he spends more time hanging around the apartment. It’s very annoying since we don’t have shared interests or relationship depth.
If he wants to spend time with…everyone else? Don’t be a fool. Let him.