When Husband is out of town and our contact is reduced to phone calls and text messages, it’s so much better. Our interactions are just about the house, the baby, and mechanical things. He somehow gets more devoted when he’s away, worrying about anything that could go wrong.
He’s more like the-perfect-spouse theory without any disturbing behavior to ruin this chosen reality .
In the-Perfect-Spouse theory, Husband helps with dishes, among other household chores. He looks for ways he can share the household responsibilities and in his heart looks for ways to take pressure off of wife. He completely adores wife. There’s non as lovely as she. And it is obvious to everyone, especially little hoochie-mamas soliciting his attention.
He protects wife from anyone who’s critical of her and from negative influences.
Does this sound like your husband? Mine neither.
But when he goes away he gets alot closer to the-Perfect-Spouse.